A Happily Married Couple Experiencing the Joys of Everyday Life

Monday, June 30, 2008

Weekend Update

We had a great weekend this past Friday, Saturday, and Sunday.

Friday night we had Drew and Ashley down for dinner. We caught up on life, enjoyed some grilled teriyaki pork with rice, and watched the movie "Fools Gold." It was slightly alright. It might be one of those movies that if you haven't already watched it, you should wait until it's on TBS ten times in one weekend. That way you can come and go and catch bits and pieces of it between doing important things like eating, napping, etc. Regardless of whether or not the movie was good or bad, it was great to spend some time with the Bakes. Thanks guys!

Saturday was a nice day at home taking care of some projects and chores. Saturday night we went to a party for Kai Buwalda. Kai will be leaving mid-July for a one year military assignment in Iraq. Keep Kai in your prayers, as well as his awesome wife Tracey. I have included a picture below that I stole from Kai's facebook pictures.


Sunday was also great. After church, Natalie had her first of several baby showers. This one was for her friends from school, work, and various life experiences. Thanks to Jenny and Christy for hosting and putting it together. And thanks to everyone for the awesome gifts!

While the girls were baby showering it up, I went golfing with my dad, Matt T., and Phil T. We played nine holes at Cobblestone and loved it. It was a lot of fun enjoying a nice course on a beautiful day. 

All in all, the weekend was busy, but turned out to be one of the weekends that you hope for all week long - relaxing, laid back, fun, enjoying people you care about.

Monday, June 23, 2008

Why Every Person Should Golf...

Sorry it's been awhile since we posted. We have had a lot going on, but just have not gotten around to blogging. We've had graduation parties, weddings, family get-togethers, doctor visits, and so on. We didn't take a lot of pictures though (which I am guessing is everyone's favorite part), which is one of the reasons we haven't posted.

Feeling like I am letting you down, I wanted to at least post something this morning. I apologize that I still have no pictures to share with you. What I wanted to write about this morning is one of my favorite hobbies/sports/interests - golf. I am playing golf this morning with my dad and sister, and while I am sitting here getting ready to play, I have been thinking about all the reasons why every person should golf.

1) It's a great way to get out and enjoy fresh air, beautiful grass, trees (although these can be troublesome for your golf game), water (see note on trees), and sand (see note on trees and water). I love being on the course and enjoying the creation God has made.

2) It's a great way to develop patience and self-control. Every time I hit a bad shot and am tempted to chuck my club like there's no tomorrow, I'm reminded that I need to be patient and have self-control. Where else can you have so many chances to get better at this than on the golf course?

3) It's a great way to develop honesty and integrity. There are a million ways to cheat or mislead in golf. You can "accidently misread" your 9 from the second hole as a 4 - shaving five whole strokes off your final score! You can carry extra golf balls in your pocket so that when you lose your real one in the creek, you can "substitute" a new one by dropping it in play when no one is looking. It can be a real temptation, which is why it's such a opportunity to grow in honesty and integrity.

4) It can be great exercise if you walk instead of ride. (Okay I realize that most of you are just going to disregard this one since you never even realized golf could be played without a cart :-)

5) It's a great way to help you overcome being materialistic or stingy. With as many golf balls as I loose in a round, I quickly begin to see them as just stuff. They can all be replaced and their are more important things in life (this may also apply to golf clubs that get tossed, broken, or go for a swim if I don't do well with point #2). Losing golf balls also helps me to be better with sharing what I have with others - particularly with those guys that always seem to find everyone else's lost balls.

6) It's a great game for learning to be polite and courteous. I love the fact that when someone else is hitting, you're supposed to be quiet (unless of course you just happen to be driving by a golf course - an opportunity in which you have no choice but to honk and yell as loud as you can out the window - "FORE!"). Also, I love that if you play quicker than the group in front of you, they are supposed to let you play through so you can move forward in front of them (and if they don't, you can just keep hitting into them until they get the message - wait, that's not very polite or courteous). 

7) You only have to hit about one good shot out of every fifty or so to keep you coming back for more. It's amazing how this works. You can hit the ball all over the place all day long and wonder to yourself, "Why did I pay all this money to come out and be this bad and miserable?" But once you hit one good shot, you're motivated to come and do it again.

8) It's fun. There are all sorts of ways you can play to suit you and the group of people you are playing with. So make it enjoyable for yourself, and please don't knock it until you've tried it!

Golf is a great game. Yes it can be expensive. But with all of these great benefits, how can their be any doubt. There are very few other investments that give you so much in return. So if you get a chance - spend some time golfing (maybe spend some time at the driving range first though).

Sunday, June 01, 2008

5th Wedding Anniversary

We celebrated our 5th Wedding Anniversary on Saturday May 31st. We spent the day up at the lake. We began with breakfast, relaxed throughout the day, and worked in the afternoon on some pictures we are painting for Elias' room. We'll have pictures of those soon.

Saturday night we went out to eat at a place called Captain's Cabin - very delicious. I had a steak smothered in a cajun blue cheese sauce (doesn't that sound good) and natalie also had a steak. Hers was not smothered in blue cheese though - she is not supposed to eat soft cheeses while pregnant. Needless to say, she will be excited about eating what she wants again once Elias is born. It's worth it now to watch what she eats - easy for me to say!

We've been through quite a lot in five years of marriage. We can't imagine going through all the things we have been through without each other or with anyone but each other. Jobs, ministries, family situations, moving, ups, downs, faith, celebrations, disappointments, rejoicing, heartbreak - through all of it God has been faithful to us and has used all of these things to grow us closer to Him and to each other. For that we give him our thanks and praise.

We had a good time Saturday night remembering our honeymoon and our anniversaries over the past five years. Our honeymoon in Naples, Florida and South Carolina was such a reflection of how our life together would be. So many stories to laugh at and learn from. 

Our first anniversary was spent in Cancun, Mexico - definitely one of the best trips we have ever taken together. On our second anniversary I had a high school golf match, I was coaching golf at Keystone at the time, so we went out to eat over the weekend. Our third anniversary we stayed at the lake for a week - I believe we have a blog post in our archives about that. Our fourth anniversary last year we were dealing with the reality of facing a miscarriage with our first pregnancy. When I think about it long enough it still grips my heart and tears me up thinking of how painful that was. We are thankful that God has blessed us with another pregnancy though that has gone well. We look forward to Elias' birth in just a couple of months. 

Five years down, hopefully many many many more years to come. What an adventure it is with each other and with Jesus. We pray that he will continue to use us, to teach us, to grow us as we grow as a family in the future. 

Me with my yummy steak.

Natalie with her yummy steak.

The sunset at the end of the day.

Memorial Day...Birthday Party

We had a great Memorial Day weekend last weekend. We went up to the lake Friday night and enjoyed food at Acapulco Grill with family in celebration of Jordan's graduation from college - CONGRATS JORD!! Then we stayed the night at the cottage and enjoyed a full day at the lake on Saturday. After church on Sunday, we went back up to the lake to celebrate Nicole's birthday. Nicole and I (Tyler) have the same birthday, so we get to celebrate it with family together. We had plenty of good food and lots of corn hole...all with the backdrop and beauty of the lake - awesome! Monday, we spent the day tubing and floating in the boat - the water was too cold to swim even though the weather was beautiful. We grilled pork steaks for dinner and finished the weekend with a cruise around the lake. It was sad for the relaxing weekend to come to an end. I have included a few pictures below.


Nicole blowing out her 17 candles. The cake is Natalie's favorite - she couldn't have any though because of the special diet she has to be on for the rest of the pregnancy.

Natalie's aunts and grandma having a good time.


The birthday buddies enjoying some leftover potato salad for a snack.

Natalie and her cousin Kati with their dogs.

Nicole and I playing corn hole.